Better to be alone, basking in the culture and sun around the world, than worrying about being judged by others - Portuguese fortress in Macau
Why is it that posing questions and having a sleepless night, which results in a blog entry, causes so many things.
Obviously nothing of significance has been affected by my thoughts, however, it has caused a lot of new things to be discussed, things to resurface and slippery snakes emerging from the darkness.
It astounds me that as soon as you write about people how fast they respond. Now both parties were mentioned by name in my blog and it surprises me how very different their reactions were.
One, let's call him 'Bob', updated me on a few things happening in his life and inquired to make sure that I was ok, sensing some inner frustration in my words and offering his kind advice. This is surprising in the fact that, I could not love him back and he just wants to see me happy by talking about 'dating if I want too' and not caring about what anyone thinks. A big man or what? How amazing.
The second mentioned subject, let's call him 'Fred', sent a message via the same means as 'Bob' however his content was completely different. He was glad to know that he was a blip on my radar and proceeded to tell me that he was is going to be in 'town' in the next few months and could he take me out to be another blip on the radar. Equally amazing or more like surprising in it's own rights.
So tell me people, what is your thoughts on these 2 responses? Completely different boys, reactions and words, which would you judge and how would you deal with them?
I know how I feel about both, but I put it to you to judge them from an outside view with little or no inside knowledge.
And to these boys, I apologize for using you as a topic of discussion. I love you both really! xo
Arohanui,
Love Amy xo
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